I’ve done the same thing!

i look at porn and may even edge a bit but not orgasm so as to increase libido for actual sex with my partner later. that said erotica and artwork would work great too, im sure

I know a guy who literally doesn’t masturbate because it “ruins sex” but also is way into porn and watches it frequently.

I knew someone very similar to that back in college. He claimed that the porn “motivated him” and not masturbating let him “channel his energy.”

Ultimately he was just an aggressive misogynistic asshole who eventually found

he watches it for the articles

you don’t watch porn for the plot ? you might learn a thing or two about mise en scène

But I can think of few things less arousing than watching porn in a group.

Imagining a bunch of hipster auteur types sipping wine and rubbing their chins, furiously writing in their little notebooks, while some Brazzers is playing in front of them all like: “ah yes the artistic choice of spreading the cumshot all across her back with a vibrator is a real insight into the perils of digital nomadism in the age of late capitalism”

I also had a colleague of mine show a titty model gif and saying ‘look at this cool thing’. He is also 20 years my senior. Just kind of confused by that more than anything, how the fuck are you supposed to react?

“Impressive, very nice, now lets see Paul Allen’s titty model gif”

That’s another instance that HR is called for

I would report his ass to HR the minute I could