just wanted to let everyone know that i do read everything, react IRL, and upbear. my social anxiety and ADHD has crawled even into my posting/commenting online which i was immune to when younger. i was wild in early forums and chatrooms
also not sure how long is too long to reply. things move slower in the lemmyverse but i’m so afraid of a reply being too “stale”
whats everyone else think about reply/comment protocol real or imagined?
It’s good comradeship to agree with everything I say and upbear all my posts. Telling me I’m wrong or stinky is counterrevolutionary.
I don’t think late replies are real. If the receiver isn’t interested in the topic anymore they can just delete it from their inbox. NBD.
I don’t reply to most comments because I don’t have anything of interest to add. I still appreciate them though.
Engagement is engagement, as long as people like my posts then I am happy even if no one responds with a comment 😊
wish we had a button that does a special upbear that lets you reveal who did it
I also feel this anxiety in other parts of my life too.
I try to reply to everyone and I’m afraid it makes me come off as intense or competitive (like I need to get in the last word) when I’m really just trying to say I heard and read what you said. Or I try to make it clear I’m not upset with something or ignoring them on purpose.
My parents didn’t pay much attention to me growing up, and I think that’s something that affects the way I interact with people. I don’t want people to feel like I’m ignoring them or that I don’t care, so I try to reply when I can.
On the other hand, that’s overwhelming, and honestly untenable. Otherwise, I would reply to my texts, emails, etc.
I don’t think many people are built for all the ways we communicate these days.
I have replied to comments that are two years old