Like from what I understand you’re not allowed to touch the workers because then it becomes prostitution. So like. A bunch of boys just get together and sit down to watch some girls dancing naked? And they just kinda grin at each other and say “hey isn’t it awesome when there’s boobs?”
You can’t jerk off so they just go to get boners with their buddies? You can do that at home. You can just watch porn with the fellas or have a circlejerk.
I’ve never understood why it’s seen as a straight masculine thing to go to a place where the only thing you can do is get horny with other men.
Sexy women are nice to you.
I think people are seeing
We have finally figured out how to make men celibate,
And going all about it.
I hear what you’re saying, but have you considered most men have a disgusting personality and that’s why women are not nice to them?
I didn’t realize how low the bar was until I was on a date and she showed me what most of the messages she gets on dating apps are like.
It’s so effective that a recent pew research discovered 68% of men under 30 are single and not interested in dating. We have finally figured out how to make men celibate, just get sexy girls to be nice to them.
sorry are you saying that onlyfans is responsible for the state of American dating? That’s not true at all. Nobody’s dating because dating sucks now that we’ve eradicated all the third spaces and replaced them with app-based meat markets. They’re not abstaining in order to indulge in more thoroughly-commoditized horrors, that’s the thing that’s driving them away from dating in the first place.
It’s incredible how many people complain about OF. Like yes, there are things to complain about them, but more often than not it’s never from a materialist standpoint. It’s literally just “ALL THESE HIGH SCHOOLERS ARE BECOMING MILLIONAIRES FROM FEET PICS AND NOT WANTING TO DATE MEN OR GO TO COLLEGE.” It’s a mixture of misogyny and a belief in “meritocracy” - that somehow all these models are bajillionaires being fed grapes by simps because they’re all hot and popular
Cam girls have existed forever but for some reason they never got the same cultural impact that only fans has. I remember being young and stumbling upon those cam sites. I scrolled all the way to the bottom and saw dozens of girls (and sometimes guys popped up) with like 0-3 views. Many were quite attractive, others were not - same with the girls who were top models featured on the site.
Hey guys wanna go spend all our money and get boners together?
Most guys who attend strip clubs are the ones who sit six feet apart from each other in any other scenario because they don’t want anyone thinking they’re gay. Same with guys who watch hours of porn, comparing dick sizes, etc. Feels like OP was just mocking these type of guys.
me and the boys
It’s a place where awful and socially maladjusted people go because they can’t get women that attractive to be pleasant to them in any other situation.
Maid cafes in Japan fulfill the same purpose but without alcohol. Some offer after-hours “specials” that include erotic performance. An evolution of historic Geisha service.
Hooters fulfills the same purpose again.
It’s the same motivation in every version, there’s just a different presentation in style and act. They want feminine attention and they are willing to part with money to get it, typically they have fucked up views of women because of the lack of feminine attention or because of the fact they’re awful human beings. Power, patriarchy, misogyny, all wrapped up into one.
i think if you view it wholly as eroticism & trying to bust it seems disappointing, but it’s really just a bar where you get to see live performance. so all the appeals of a bar PLUS watching contortionists & dancers do their thing.
watching contortionists & dancers do their thing
if that were the appeal, they wouldn’t be almost entirely female - there is also a significant amount of misogyny and objectification going on
i’m just explaining a point of view that will be less alien to the audience here, the whole reason strip clubs exist is patriarchal morality policing, there’s a ton to unpack about it but an important first thing to understand is that it’s art & performance. and i’m not the best equipped to actually do that unpacking, i’ve only read history from before strip clubs were an explicit category
I love that in techno/funk parties in Brazil is pretty common to have performance, they are usually dancers of “vougueing”, but they’re also drag queens of just people with the most crazy costumes. There’s a DJ I really like, DJ K, who always bring his dancers that are just two guys with evil clown mask dancing funk in a style that is creepy, so it mix well with his style of funk.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OdZ_1En9a4
ok this goes hard as fuck
