clover [she/her]
I don’t post here anymore because I’m busy being GAY, but I need somewhere to vent after a fresh round of unfriends/blocks from some former childhood friends
some sexual harassment stuff
One sentence story: getting accused of sexually harassment for flirting with my girlfriend by a guy who is at least 0 for 4 with women, who wanted to visit his egirl crush unannounced in the middle of our roadtrip, who messaged a mutual friend about how her selfie got him hard.
Good riddance, asshole
the fuck are these people on about lmao - when the fuck did any of that happen
Loser in r/europe responding to Berlin protests with “this shouldn’t be fought out in Europe to this extent”
Crackers are so eager to run from responsibility, so tiring
Wish my insurance covered my summer dentist appointment like both websites say it does instead of me owning these assholes a whole paycheck
some trans sex drive talks, questions about hrt and sex
So like obviously everyone’s different but I wanted to hear any thoughts the trans folk of hexbear have:
I can start HRT relatively soon but my partner and I have some concerns about how that could affect my sex drive when they come to see me during the holidays. I have what I can only describe as a really healthy “male” libido - I have times when I’m really horny, and when I’m not, I can usually get there pretty fast and easily. I guess you could call us both some degree of hypersexual? They’re pretty similar.
So of course I expect something there to change on HRT, but it’s really hard to imagine. As things are now, despite being generally horny, it is difficult to get off and really want it those occasions when I’m physically with my partner (it’s long distance). I chalk it up to dysphoria and being really aware of myself and my parts during sex. My partner understandably can’t help but feel bad and undesired sometimes - like they know what’s up and all; it still sucks sometimes. I think I’d be the same way.
I feel like things could be better on HRT even if it’s too early for any crazy physical changes, but it would really suck if somehow it’s worse than before. Like we can still have a good time and we’re doing pretty well with the challenges that already exist. It’s tough - I don’t really want to put this off longer but I also want to fuck and have fun, lol. Thoughts?
reddit approaching jailbait levels of depravity with the horrific shit people are allowed to say about palestinians… idk what I expected, but the bloodlust over Russia/Ukraine was bad enough - to post the kind of shit I’ve seen about a population being ethnically cleansed, you gotta be a real sick freak. God it’s really fucking hopeless. Some of these folks are real people that exist… maddening
They beat my ass in r/politics this morning for suggesting that Fox approving of Biden’s speech last night isn’t a good thing. Lot of weirdos in there baying for war or going “I’m glad we have a boring president that I don’t have to think about!” I’m not sure what’s more horrifying.
chapo has done a lot to put words to my general frustration with politics and such in the leadup to and immediate aftermath of 2016. Cushman was probably the biggest part of that (big ups to his Charlottesville rant) and I really hope he pulls through and everything comes out okay. Would like homie to see his daughter and hold her.
