God that sounds so tiring. We thankfully haven’t experienced any of that but there is a weird tension around a certain group of men who see her as their race even though they’re way off. Not trying to get too specific though.

Yeah I absolutely understand what you were aiming at here.

So much of American racism is some weird sexual pathology with their daughters.

I know the dynamics are different, but I’m in reverse situation. White guy, brown wife.

One thing that I really didn’t think hard enough about was when my mom told me she was “sad that her grandchildren wouldn’t look like [her]” and I sorta blanked it out at the time because it was so fucked up. My wife definitely gets treated worse by my mother for internalized racism reasons among others. My mom is a big CNN lib and always pulls the “i have black friends/work with black people” card whenever I call her on saying something racist.

Ironically my total fox news addicted grandfather LOVES my wife. Partly i think because she reminds him a lot of my late grandmother in her personality. They got along the moment they met and he’s treated her like she’s part of the family since. He once tried to pull the “there’s no more racism anymore” thing and I told him about some racist things that happened to my wife and he immediately paused and contemplated what he said and admitted to being wrong.

On my wifes side of the family, interracial marriages are super normal just due to the dynamics of the country and everyone is mixed 5 ways anyway.

I spent a lot of time editing this pfp in gimp, okay. It was a good bit and I stand by it.

as opposed to good ole brandon

Super popular position among suburban women

The quote is good. I like the quote

Like at least she can form a sentence.

exactly

i bet if i hired a lawyer and sent threatening letters i could have gotten that taken off,

I wonder if a scientology grade mass legal DDOS of insurance companies would have any effect. I mean it defeated the IRS.