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Pandantic
I’m sorry for your loss. Whatever the situation, I’m sure you did the best you could and he wouldn’t want you to beat yourself up about it. I know he was grateful for the time you shared together, and you were both better off for having each other.
The first ep was rough but I’m reserving judgment. Some first eps are like that.
I don’t know if it’s an autism thing because I’m basically neurotypical but I felt this way too. My experience was pretty much a mirror of what you and OP said. In fact, I think I’m going through the despair part at the moment.
I’m trying to radicalize my partner, and they do the “human nature” thing, and I think arguing against it is helping me flesh out my own thinking on it. I’m still on my journey into leftism, but I’m on solid ground knowing it’s the morally correct path.
Thank you both for sharing. It helps to know that others have walked this path before me.
Hello fellow Bulbasaur enjoyer!
Do you feel strong enough to push back in those moments that he’s berating you? Like someone else said, some people are so casual with their mean comments that they think people will snap back as quickly as they do. I get the impression that you are somewhat dependent on him at the moment, so if you can make the situation better by showing him you won’t just take the punches, it might be worth a shot.
Also, you are more than what he thinks of you- remember that. Good luck, comrade.
Panda with a red pen. Probably with some angry jigglypuff-like face when I see grammar mistakes.
How are you?
I’m doing good.
Me: 😡
I’m doing
goodwell.
Normal type, cute but feisty, pen is definitely bigger than it needs to be.
She doesn’t have a moe look so I’m going to assume she’s yandere.
And sometimes, just sometimes, deer eat meat. Nature is wild.
Yes because I am cute. Actually. That’s my aesthetic.
Edit: I see a lot of people calling it infantilizing, but it’s my personality. And I’m older than other people on here have said they are.