I have occasionally thought that a woman might be looking for more pushback when they say no, but then I realize that’s insane. I have to believe people when they say no because the alternative is a nightmare, and also I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t say what they mean.
yeah, of course that’s it. There’s a thing called other women, so that we don’t have to kill ourselves over you.
That and the whole if someone says no and you continue… You are now harassing someone. Those are the people that give a bad wrap to so many people. No means no. If you don’t mean no, don’t say it, or message them later saying you were nervous or some shit and just reacted out of fear. But it is on them once they said no. They shut the door. You don’t keep knocking and trying to kick it in and expect to not be considered a threat.
Why waste time on a no? Currently, women are throwing my number away after trying hard to get it shrugs
I don’t play mind games. If you said no, I just trust you are being honest. I move on. If you weren’t being honest, shame on you for one, and two, you definitely don’t have the character I’m looking for in a partner.
Can’t she try herself to ask men out?